What if she isn't interested in curing your erectile dysfunction?

What if she isn't interested in curing your erectile dysfunction?

And she may not be, because she may have profound issues around sex - perhaps even being secretly quite glad that you cannot make any sexual demands of her, since you don't have an erection. It's important not to underestimate how couples may collude to keep erectile dysfunction off the agenda so that the status quo, and the issues which are thereby hidden, do not become exposed to scrutiny and threaten the long-term future of the relationship. You can try to understand when a woman is being unco-operative about helping you solve your erectile problems. She may have fears about opening up difficult  relationship issues that will take you down challenging roads - break-up, power shifts, fears about her own sexual issues, and so on. She may be angry because you have never previously discussed the issues you are now dealing with, or she may simply not be willing to engage in deeper intimacy. Or, perhaps, she simply dislikes sex. Forcing these issues into the open may or may not be easy to deal with - but just reassuring her that you love her, or at the least being honest with her, is undoubtedly the best policy in the long run - do it for the sake of your erection!What if she isn't interested in curing your erectile dysfunction?

If she hits you with comments like "No other man I've had sex with has had this problem" (or such like), then try to listen to her anger and frustration rather than her meanness - though if she really means it, then you may want to start working on the relationship with a counsellor, perhaps with a view to breaking up. And if you need to, simply ask her directly to help you with these erectile problems. If you have decided to deal with your erectile dysfunction, remember that an issue as sensitive as not having an erection can feel like a wound to your very soul, and it may be some time before you can address it effectively. But you can start right now on this website. Click here for a way to treat - and cure erectile dysfunction.

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